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My name is: Michelle, but most people call me Dark online.
My gender-pronouns are: They/them/their.
I am: 26 years old, a feminist, liberal, an atheist, an omnivore, and an ISFJ.
The Feminist: Intersectional, body positive, pro-choice, and sex positive.
My privileged identities include: Female assigned at birth (trans* privilege), white, able-bodied, allistic (?), dyadic, monogamous.
My non-privileged/oppressed identities include: Gender-fluid, fat, gray-a, neuroatypical, and gay.
I have: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Major Depressive Disorder.
I like: Pets & animals, animal welfare, pet care & pet care education, ~*SCIENCE!*~, anatomy & physiology, roleplaying, anime/manga, computer & video games, rock & metal music.
Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
It’s never “her or his”.
Try saying that. Try writing it
“His or hers” is so ingrained that it seems natural “his” should always come first.
Maybe sprinkle in a few “her or his“‘s into your next term paper to make your professor reread the page several times with the sense that there is an error somewhere…
(Source: all-about-male-privilege)
Or we could use (singular) “they” to not reinforce the gender binary.
I make an effort to do this in speaking and in writing. Alternatively, I use “her” as the default singular catch-all at...
we could also move toward using gender neutral pronouns or something you know because neither “his or her” nor “her or...
I would so do this, but I just use they/their. I don’t care if it gets marked wrong (which it has) because just by...
Doing it.
I actually consciously use “hers or his” all the time, or just the gender neutral “theirs/them” etc. Also, it’s way...