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My name is: Michelle, but most people call me Dark online.
My gender-pronouns are: They/them/their.
I am: 27 years old, a feminist, an atheist, an omnivore, and an ISFJ.
The Feminist: Intersectional, body positive, pro-choice, and sex positive.
My privileged identities include: Female assigned at birth (FAAB trans* privilege), white, able-bodied, allistic (?), dyadic, monogamous.
My non-privileged/oppressed identities include: Gender-fluid, fat, gray-a, neuroatypical, and gay.
I have: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, Dermatophagia, and Dermatillomania.
I like: Pets & animals, animal welfare, pet care & pet care education, ~*SCIENCE!*~, anatomy & physiology, roleplaying, anime/manga, computer & video games, rock & metal music.
if you categorically are “not attracted to trans people” you’re a transphobe. i will reconsider my position on this if you can name a single unifying quality that all trans people share that is not just “being trans” and describe to me how exactly it disqualifies us from being considered attractive by the majority of cis people. your argument cannot boil down to “i think trans people are gross on some fundamental level” and you must explain to me why you think it’s coincidental to you being socialized to think trans people are sexually repulsive. go
attraction goes far beyond a pseudo-intellectual analysis
taste is subjective
taste is subjective. taste exists in a vacuum which is not influenced by the society in which it exists. we all emerged from the womb as fully formed adults with our tastes frozen in fucking carbonite. taste transcends the human experience. taste is absolute and we are all merely specks of dust compelled by its divine gravity
OMG I love you for this response.
It does happen, there are tons of ableist shit bag cis women who say that to cis girls with uterine problems and sterility and who’ve had to have their uterus out.
Like… I appreciate the attempts to help trans girls but don’t erase disabled folks while you’re at it. That shit absolutely gets said to disabled cis women.
Please don’t walk on folks to defend us.
A trans girl who also has disabilities and doesn’t want ableism around either.
advantages of being a boy:
- your boobs don’t get in the way
- no period
- your hormones don’t make you feel like a different person every week
- no childbirth
- penises are fun
- shirts always fit over your chest
- you can walk around topless in summer without being arrested for it
- you store less fat
advantages of being a girl:
- can use your bra as an extra pocket
- which you need because the pockets on your pants are fake
advantages of being cis:
- never having to critically examine posts like this
- never feeling weird or out of place because of posts like this
- never feeling like you’re made wrong because of posts like this
- never having to question cissexist notions that are prevalent and ingrained in posts like this