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I’m sorry, but I can’t be the only one who is irritated by the responses to those students. You know they went easy on their little white asses. It’s so obvious. I love how the one school released a statement and pretty much dismissed the boy’s usage of racial slurs as a “mistake of youth.” As if it’s just a kid being a kid, it’s normal for teens his age, don’t you know. And they all want to be excused. ” I hope that you will be able to look beyond what he has done, and toward the man that he can and will become from this unfortunate learning experience.” WHY THE FUCK SHOULD WE?” White people can dehumanize us in the most blatant ways and other white people will STILL find a way to help their ass save face.tw
Jezebel did something right?! And I love how they’re claiming to be hacked all of a sudden. Chile nobody tryna hack your damn twitter account to make you look bad.
“He can’t be racist, he’s dating an African!” So calling somebody a horrible, triggering racial slur is a-ok because his girlfriend is not only brown skinned, but actually from Africa!!!!! OMG. It’s never their faults. It’s NEVER. THEIR FAULTS. It’s social pressure. It’s teens being teens. It’s such a tough world out there for a white kid, and it’s especially so so difficult for them to NOT use racial slurs when everybody else is, because omg, they might be ostracized if they don’t dehumanize an entire race of people! It’s only a joke. There are a lot worse things out there. Don’t be mad at me, I’m only 18. I was hacked, it wasn’t ME making those tweets. None of the schools returned any calls to Jezebel, and if they DID contact them, it was just to say, “We can’t talk about it,” which you KNOW means “we’re letting them off with the easiest punishment imaginable because we don’t really care, seeing as racism against PoC doesn’t affect our white selves.” Even in the instance where the principal was BLACK, no action was taken because “Oh, I know him, he’s not like that, he made a mistake.” THIS CRACKER DON’T GIVE TWO SHITS ABOUT YOU BUT YOU’RE DEFENDING HIM?
White people y’all don’t GET how easy you have it. You can treat us like shit. PUBLICLY TREAT US LIKE WE ARE THE SCUM OF THIS PLANET. And nine times out of ten, NOTHING will happen to you. NOTHING. Because we don’t matter.
THIS IS THE MESSAGE WE ARE FACED WITH EVERY FUCKING GOD DAMN SHITTING ASS DAY. That we don’t matter. Folks shit on us ALL the time. You think a single one of them learned their lesson? I can guarantee you they won’t. There ARE no consequences for them. This shit won’t follow them around for the rest of their lives like it should. It probably won’t follow them around beyond next week. This shit won’t go on any sort of record. They won’t lose a job over it. They won’t be denied anything because of it. They won’t be left for want of anything because of their blatant racism. They’ll be given slaps on the fucking wrist, and they’ll serve their five minutes of time and go on with their lives with the SAME hate in their hearts that they always had, but now, they just might not be so vocal about it, if we’re lucky. PoC aren’t given that sort of fortune. We have to grapple with their words, and everyone else’s, and the lack of action, and the lack of severity in terms of punishment, because for them, it means, “I can get away with it.” for us, it means, “You don’t matter enough for anyone to give this the kind of attention it SHOULD be getting. You don’t matter enough for us to give them punishments that fit the crime.”
Even in the comments section, the first shit you see is white people defending these students because, “is this what we do now, SHAME *CHILDREN*?” Because in white folk’s world, 18 year old white kids are CHILDREN. In white folk’s world, racism is something worth defending. Don’t call out the kids, don’t call out the teens, don’t call out the adults, don’t call out the senior citizens. The world is RIFE with excuses for white people of any age, so long as they can stay acting like the racist fucks they are. Our brown children are being tried like adults and put in prison at the age of 14, but a white high schooler spouting violent racial threats is a CHILD who doesn’t know any better and needs to be coddled and NOT ~shamed~ for what they did, because why the hell would you ever shame a white person for being racist, ever? HOW. FUCKING CRUEL. PoC don’t ever get to be children, even when they ARE children, but white ADULTS who are blatantly out of pocket are CHILDREN who need to be DEFENDED?But you know these same people scrambling to defend these children sure as fuck weren’t defending our president when he was getting racial hate. They sure as hell weren’t stanning for Black people everywhere who are facing the threat of racial violence. They sure as hell aren’t trying to protect US. But protect the white adult threatening to kill us all because “he’s just a child, why are you shaming him?”
So they got called out. Fine. Were they forced to answer for their tweets? Were they REALLY held accountable for their actions? Did they acknowledge that they dehumanized not only the leader of this country, but billions of people? Did they acknowledge that they’re racists? Do they care? Are they really sincerely sorry? HA. Like hell. But what else is fucking new? White people can be as blatantly racist as they want, and they’ll get away with it every time with nothing more than a slap on the wrist, and it’s us Black people who have to deal with the brunt of their actions. It’s US who face consequences because of this shit, not them. And so long as other white people are willing to defend and coddle their asses when they need to get whipped, it’ll always be that way. But why the hell would we expect white people to give a shit about stuff that benefits them anyway? Just another happy day in the life of white people.
(Source: notesonascandal)
[Tw: Racial slur]
*note before I start*These are only a few things I thought of today which could answer your question seeing as this question is dissertation (broad but very heavy) worthy to begin with. Also, I’ve been on vacation and just got off the plane so this is 7 hours late and not proofread because most of this was started on my phone. I’m also probably going to get a lot of hate after I publish this saying how all of this is fairytale and unrealistic but you asked so you get an answer*end note*
First white people would look at what they’ve done to society and stop seeing just greatness.
They’d see the Diasporas they’ve caused and instead of complaining when white guilt sets in. Actively do things to change it. Get the fuck out of African Nations(give them back their free water supply, stop invading for oil, trees, metals, and gems). They would see the pain and the illness in this world and not pass over it in the name of Manifest Destiny, economy, profit gains, or means to an end. They would throw away Manifest Destiny from this day forth. They would apologies to Natives, and treat them with respect, they would lower the prizes of food on the rez, get them proper shelter, and get them off of all mascot, shirts, pins, backpacks; etc positions because they are people, not tokens. They would dismantle the KKK and other Brotherhoods(Aryan, Italian; etc). They would redo history books to include original thinkers and creators whose names were overlooked in favor of white apprentices/thieves. They would apologize and compensate the Chinese for the railroads they built. They would look back at the Industrial revolution and see how big of a role race played in getting Lithuanian and other migrant countries to accept lower wages and apologies to them. They would look at what it means to be white and understand whiteness for the step stool made of PoC’s backs, fingers, and heads that it is. Look at projects,”ghettos” and jails and realized the historically the color scheme has gotten darker in those areas for a reason. White people during the IR moved into these places and when white privilege made it easier for them to move up in the word the broken down developments became home to more PoC’s than sometimes humanely possible. Respect Rroma people and understand that they suffer too. Stop calling them ‘gypsies’! They are not a costume they are a people who have long earned the respect white people have refused them. Speak to them about whether they want to be considered white people. Respect their lives. Give what they ask in terms of respect and resources.
And so and and so forth.
Second, they shouldn’t beg PoC about their opinions and advice about race to alleviate their guilt like we are mammy milkmaids.
They would do what white privilege denies them and that is be accountable for what happen and let* it mark their history because no one else (besides men in general) have gotten a free pass at globally editing history.
Third, when someone said or done something racist(in “isolated” incidents) there is no consoling the racist. Period.
They are to feel ashamed for what they have said or done because HISTORICAL WEIGHT GIVES NO JUSTIFICATION FOR SUCH THINGS TO CONTINUE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. POC HAVE SUFFERED ENOUGH FOR A MILLENNIA. Stop thinking other PoC can’t say problematic shit but don’t think that it’s OK to rip them apart for it either. Your boat for that sailed a long time ago. Say your piece and go away. Also, stop treating lighter PoC or straight haired PoC better than others. You are only adding to the disgusting institution your families created and uphold.
Fourth, I need media/Hollywood who ever to realize that PoC can have complicated roles, dark skin, natural hair, and are human beings.
Like Games of Thrones (obviously this story will contain more European/white characters)has 2 African descent person and he’s a pirate with less than 100 words combined if that. I’m tired of all of the stories, movies, books, making me feel like white people are the only people who ever had adventures, were heroes, have conflicts, and doubt their abilities even if they are excellent people. I’m tired of race being a way to real in viewers with controversy instead of because it makes the sense that PoC should be involved in everything white people are involved in. Shows like NBC’s Scandal need more light but I shouldn’t have to be excited because 5+ of the 14+ characters are PoC. The point is we have rich history and stories to be told to. They can be just as good as Harry Potter, Game of Thrones, Dexter, BBC Sherlock or Supernatural.
Fifth, white people realizing money is apart of privilege in a very real way.
Let’s see white people refuse their inheritance and give it the DREAM organizations or black youth or other PoC self development organizations. Find the families of your ancestors and pay reparations to children of laborers. Rebuild places like Newark, NJ where race riots are still historically visible in broken down/fire damaged buildings and NOT gentrify them like white people are doing now. Go to schools where white people aren’t the overwhelming majority in both classrooms and faculty rooms and see how different your education turns out.
Six, Most importantly. PoC are intelligent, efficient, and capable just like white people. Don’t think you need to coddle us forever.
Once we have sufficient tools for ourselves we will not stand for White Saviors; that’s just another way to keep PoC from being their own people and being their own heroes. We don’t need collective parents we need peers.
Don’t just live out change on the internet. Don’t just go to the projects for a class assignment. Actually cut off the white-only bootstraps and live with us.
So those are 6 or so ways I think racist institutions can be dismantled.
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this person literally had NO IDEA that tr**** is a slur. legitimate confusion. WUT?
also, what the fuck is funny about her race or gender? like… fuck people who make jokes like this.
It’s weird how lots of white people I know will be sharing some anecdote and have to specify someone was “black,” or even “big and black.”
(And obviously, I’m against transphobic language, too…)
It’s weird how lots of white people I know will be sharing some anecdote and have to specify someone was “black,” or even “big and black.”
THIS.
It drives me up a wall. My mother is guilty of this, she does it no matter how many times I question her on why she’s specified the person’s race when it isn’t essential to the story she’s telling.
It isn’t only race either, though that’s the most common.
Fat, black, Mexican, Puerto Rican, tr****, gay. Anything not straight, cis, white and thin. We use these terms to describe people outside the ‘preferred’ majority of straight, cis, white, thin people.
I just saw this on my facebook news feed. I’m so angry and frustrated and I want to say something but I just have no idea how to swiftly explain why he’s wrong and why all people who say this shit are wrong.
Just point out - most the websites/TV networks/magazines/etc. are geared towards white people. The whole point of a media marketed towards people of color, whatever their ethnicity, is because mainstream media is so whitewashed.
(Source: losarlentinos)