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My name is: Michelle, but most people call me Dark online.

My gender-pronouns are: They/them/their.

I am: 26 years old, a feminist, liberal, an atheist, an omnivore, and an ISFJ.

The Feminist: Intersectional, body positive, pro-choice, and sex positive.

My privileged identities include: Female assigned at birth (trans* privilege), white, able-bodied, allistic (?), dyadic, monogamous.

My non-privileged/oppressed identities include: Gender-fluid, fat, gray-a, neuroatypical, and gay.

I have: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Major Depressive Disorder.

I like: Pets & animals, animal welfare, pet care & pet care education, ~*SCIENCE!*~, anatomy & physiology, roleplaying, anime/manga, computer & video games, rock & metal music.

Hello.

 

absentminded patterings, mostly.: Help me move to the land of healthcare, disability programs, and accessible housing!

wheeliewifee:

There is no doubt in my mind that California will be a huge “land of opportunity” for me (especially compared to Utah)— but in order to GET there and take advantage of said opportunities, I need a little help…

It looks like it will cost $600- $800 to rent a truck and pay for the gas and whatnot.

My family can help physically with packing and loading, but are too broke (or too stubborn…) to help financially. My husband is finding odd jobs from friends and neighbors, we are selling off a lot of our belongings, and we are going to have a huge SALE in the shop starting next week, but I am still worried about covering the total amount…

This move will open SO MANY door for us; D has great job prospects, it will provide a better (and more accessible) education for me, and the availability of medical assistance programs and Medicaid could quite possibly save (or prolong) my life. 

Many of my followers have told me to let them know if I ever need anything, and so I guess this is where I come here and beg. 

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There is a “Donate” button on the bottom right hand side of my blog.

Any little bit helps, and is GREATLY appreciate. I am really hoping that this move will improve our life and make it so that we no longer need to scrape by on Etsy orders and beg for Tumblr donations… 

I love you all, thank you so much for your support, whether it is financial or emotional. <3 

http://wheeliewifee.tumblr.com/donate

https://www.etsy.com/shop/ThePaperPoppyStore

artqueer:

 The Los Angeles Transgender Film Festival is seeking films for our fifth annual film festival. Whether you’re dealing with gender-specific issues or not, we will be screening many diverse works made by trans, genderqueer, and intersex artists, including comedy, dramedy, drama, experimental, animation, and more! We also welcome work by allies who are showcasing trans or genderqueer themes in their work.
Submission Guidelines/Entry Form [PDF]
The LA Transgender Film Festival consists of an annual film festival, awards show, and international tour. We have traveled to UCLA, University of Texas Austin, CSU Long Beach, Culver City High School, Lifeworks queer youth program, and Pasadena City College, among many other venues. Apart from film screenings, we also have in store some tasty live performances and panel discussions with artists and activists.
To bring the LA Transgender Film Festival to your campus or community, please contact us at info@tgfilmfest.org
www.tgfilmfest.org
www.facebook.com/tgfilmfest

artqueer:

The Los Angeles Transgender Film Festival is seeking films for our fifth annual film festival. Whether you’re dealing with gender-specific issues or not, we will be screening many diverse works made by trans, genderqueer, and intersex artists, including comedy, dramedy, drama, experimental, animation, and more! We also welcome work by allies who are showcasing trans or genderqueer themes in their work.

Submission Guidelines/Entry Form [PDF]

The LA Transgender Film Festival consists of an annual film festival, awards show, and international tour. We have traveled to UCLA, University of Texas Austin, CSU Long Beach, Culver City High School, Lifeworks queer youth program, and Pasadena City College, among many other venues. Apart from film screenings, we also have in store some tasty live performances and panel discussions with artists and activists.

To bring the LA Transgender Film Festival to your campus or community, please contact us at info@tgfilmfest.org

www.tgfilmfest.org

www.facebook.com/tgfilmfest

cokekitty:

OpenDyslexic is a free-to-use font that is designed to help those with dyslexia read better. The text is weighted, having a heavier bottom, which is thought to increase readability for dyslexic people. You can download it for free here.
I don’t have dyslexia myself, but in the event any of my followers do, I thought I’d share. Maybe it will help people.

cokekitty:

OpenDyslexic is a free-to-use font that is designed to help those with dyslexia read better. The text is weighted, having a heavier bottom, which is thought to increase readability for dyslexic people. You can download it for free here.

I don’t have dyslexia myself, but in the event any of my followers do, I thought I’d share. Maybe it will help people.

TAL9000: Free/Cheap voice resources for trans women?

ericainchoate:

So someone I know solely online who seems pretty awesome is in need of some voice help. I am like the wrongest person to ask, but she’s not exactly in the best financial situation so I was wondering if I can kick my Tumblr Trans* Army into gear here.

Here’s what she needs:

Cheap or free training videos/tapes/whatever for help working on making your voice sound more “typically female.” I can give general advice but I know there’s expertise out there.

Any help/ideas/links/etc are awesome. You can also email me at inchoaterica at gmail dot com (if you’re not an MRA yelling at me, lol) if you’d rather roll that way.

Thanks and much <3,

-erica

The effects of unchecked criminalization: Teen charged with felony for science experiment

edwardspoonhands:

laurennmcc:

fuckyeahfeminists:

This is what the school-to-prison pipeline looks like. This is how black youth are criminalized.

  1. She was doing a science experiment
  2. She’s being charged as an ADULT
  3. She’s being charged with a FELONY

If this all goes the way the prosecution wants, this young woman will be LEGALLY discriminated against for the rest of her life. No voting, housing discrimination,  employment discrimination (as if getting a job while black isn’t hard enough), etc. etc.

Perhaps instead of fighting about who is tougher, Batman or Iron Man, we could spend a little internet rage making sure this young scientist doesn’t go to prison?

From the comments section:

To everyone commenting on this thread that is outraged by this chain of events: I am just as outraged as you. But it is not enough for us simply to vent on message boards because nothing gets accomplished. I strongly urge you to write a letter to the school district, local authorities, AND to the Principal. Or just pick one…but DO SOMETHING!!! And let us remember that in order to get our points across we must be INDIGNANT and DIGNIFIED! I am in the process of starting a petition, once I have gathered some more crucial facts. Please be on the lookout for this petition and be sure to sign it ( via Change.org ) in addition to your letter or letters to Polk County Law Officials, The school Principal, and the School Administration. Contact Info Can be found below:

Bartow High School Principal Ronald Pritchard / Address: 1270 S Broadway Ave Bartow, FL 33830 / EMAIL: Ronald.Pritchard@polk-fl.net PHONE:(863)- 534-7400 Fax: (863)534-0077

Polk County Superintendent: Dr. John Stewart /Address: 1915 South Floral Avenue, Bartow, FL 33831 Phone: (863) 534-0521 Fax: (863) 519-8231 Email: Dr. John Stewart

Polk Regional Juvenile Detention Ctr

ADDRESS: 2155 Bob Phillips Road, Bartow, FL 33830

TEL: 863-534-7090
FAX: 863-534-7024
EMAIL:
pio@polksheriff.org

If we can all take 5-10 minutes to read this story, comment, and read posts by others then surely we can take the same amount of time to act on this child’s behalf.”

The petition is up.

Let’s not let Kiera Wilmot’s situation drift out of our consciousness. Let’s continue paying attention to this story until she is NOT a felon and NOT expelled. 

To be clear, I did this EXACT THING in ninth grade. THE EXACT SAME THING without consulting my science teacher and with significantly more explosive power. For some reason…not sure why…I was not arrested, handcuffed, expelled, or put in jail. If I had been, I can guarantee I would not be where I am now.

thegoddamazon:

thelittlekneesofbees:

toopunktofuck:

RAPIST/SEXUAL ABUSER ALERT FOR ORLANDO, FL, LAKE MARY, FL AND SEATTLE, WA
JORDAN WERTHMAN FROM LAKE MARY, FLORIDA
21 YEARS OLD
ATTENDS SCHOOL AT UCF @ ORLANDO
WILL BE A JUNIOR DURING THE 2013-14 TERM
MAJORING IN COMPUTER ENGINEERING
WILL BE ATTENDING A GOOGLE INTERNSHIP IN SEATTLE, WA THIS SUMMER (HE IS IN WASHINGTON RIGHT NOW)
Jordan Werthman sexually assaulted/attempted to rape a friend of mine in April, another student at UCF. He waited until she was intoxicated and attempted to penetrate her, despite him saying himself that she was “not interested at all” and “kept asking to leave”
After the assault, Werthman proceeded to text her repeatedly, even after she told him to leave her alone, asking “what he did,” despite clearly knowing exactly what he did. He has also said that “all men think about rape.”
He proceeded to stalk her, and went into her dorm building (which he does not live in) to slip a letter underneath her door, asking how he can “make it up” to her.
Afterward, my friend filed a police report and a police officer called Werthman to tell him that he is a rapist while he was celebrating his birthday with his family. However, my friend went out with some of her friends later that night and suddenly, Jordan was on the way ‘just to say hi,’ even though he was alerted he could be arrested if he came near her.
He has also allegedly attempted to assault or rape at least one other person. He has previously been reported to police at UCF for stalking a freshman.
PLEASE SPREAD THIS AROUND, THIS IS A DANGEROUS BOY WITH NO REGARD FOR THE PERSONAL BOUNDARIES OF WOMEN

JORDAN WERTHMAN FROM LAKE MARY, FLORIDA everybody!

He even looks like he does shit like that too.
And fuck it’s near Orlando so be careful, guys.

thegoddamazon:

thelittlekneesofbees:

toopunktofuck:

RAPIST/SEXUAL ABUSER ALERT FOR ORLANDO, FL, LAKE MARY, FL AND SEATTLE, WA

JORDAN WERTHMAN FROM LAKE MARY, FLORIDA

21 YEARS OLD

ATTENDS SCHOOL AT UCF @ ORLANDO

WILL BE A JUNIOR DURING THE 2013-14 TERM

MAJORING IN COMPUTER ENGINEERING

WILL BE ATTENDING A GOOGLE INTERNSHIP IN SEATTLE, WA THIS SUMMER (HE IS IN WASHINGTON RIGHT NOW)

Jordan Werthman sexually assaulted/attempted to rape a friend of mine in April, another student at UCF. He waited until she was intoxicated and attempted to penetrate her, despite him saying himself that she was “not interested at all” and “kept asking to leave”

After the assault, Werthman proceeded to text her repeatedly, even after she told him to leave her alone, asking “what he did,” despite clearly knowing exactly what he did.
He has also said that “all men think about rape.”

He proceeded to stalk her, and went into her dorm building (which he does not live in) to slip a letter underneath her door, asking how he can “make it up” to her.

Afterward, my friend filed a police report and a police officer called Werthman to tell him that he is a rapist while he was celebrating his birthday with his family. However, my friend went out with some of her friends later that night and suddenly, Jordan was on the way ‘just to say hi,’ even though he was alerted he could be arrested if he came near her.

He has also allegedly attempted to assault or rape at least one other person. He has previously been reported to police at UCF for stalking a freshman.

PLEASE SPREAD THIS AROUND, THIS IS A DANGEROUS BOY WITH NO REGARD FOR THE PERSONAL BOUNDARIES OF WOMEN

JORDAN WERTHMAN FROM LAKE MARY, FLORIDA everybody!

He even looks like he does shit like that too.

And fuck it’s near Orlando so be careful, guys.

Friendly Neighborhood Sasshole: Help?

diloolie:

metapianycist:

metapianycist:

So the bank I got a student loan from has a really shitty policy whereby if you miss a payment, you have to make a payment in order to get any kind of deferment (stopping payments for a while), even if it’s an economic hardship deferment.

In order for me to stop the payments, I will have to make a $202 (USD) payment first. I don’t have $202 (I have no income), my co-signer does not have $202, and I really do not want to default on this loan.

Please help? (Donation link here. I bet most people reading this can give at least $1.)

p.s. Wells Fargo is a terrible bank; never get a loan from them if you can help it.

I’m reblogging myself to post an update.

Wells Fargo has started calling me and telling me that my loan account is “delinquent” and that I need to fix that by the end of the month to avoid default. So far, several people have donated a total of $86 to me. (Yay, that is almost halfway toward $202! Thank you to those three donors!)

Part of why I want to avoid defaulting is because my aunt (the co-signer) would very likely cut me and my mother off from any help she gives us, ever, and my mother does not deserve to suffer like that.

If you can part with one dollar to help out a fellow human being, please do it. You don’t need a Paypal account, and you’d be helping me spare my mother from my aunt’s cruelty. If I can get $202 before the next payment is due (May 10), I will be able to defer payments until I have income.

Please help.

signal boost. 

Please Help Baby Safiyyah!

rabbrakha:

Much to everyone’s surprise, my daughter got meningitis at birth and due to a lot of mistakes made by doctors as well, she consequently had severe brain damage after the bacteria ate her brain tissues. She just turned 3 on the 8th of April and she has global developmental delay, vision impairment and cerebral palsy. She doesn’t sit, or walk, or talk, or see properly. It’s really difficult to carry her around as she is on the chubby end and weighs more than 40lbs.

Looking at her you could never tell anything is wrong because she was a typical healthy child at birth without any abnormalities, but once you spend a little time with her you will start wondering why she’s not doing A LOT or ANY of the things her age children would be doing :(. It kills me to not have to go through milestones with her and there is a constant thought of what if something I could have done differently or been more aware of what the doctors were doing. But now were keeping all that behind us and just focusing and putting all our energy on Safiyyah’s well being… but we need help…

I want to raise a campaign for Safiyyah as we see so much potential in her. She was given just minutes to live and she has come so far with doctors in awe. She truly is a fighter! Her only medicine is intense therapy; vision therapy, speech therapy, occupational therapy and most important of them all-physiotherapy. Unfortunately, everything is so expensive. We as parents feel that with intense therapy sessions, she will soon enough be able to sit, stand, and walk on her own.

With contributors that may be able to fund money for her, it will substantially help us in giving Safiyyah the maximum support in achieving all the daily and basic functions of a normal human being, and I really hope that can happen sooner than later.

Please take a moment to read this, donate some money if possible, and spread the word. Farah needs help, and she can’t do it alone. Anything and absolutely everything counts. Please be generous.  Help spread the word. 

If Tumblr Can Help a Guy Get a Chicken...

askshi:

Hello. My name is Neoma Lindley, and I live with a condition called ‘pseudo-tumor cerebri’, a form of IIH (idiopathic inter-cranial hypertension). This condition causes severe migraines, vision problems, and at times leaves me in such pain that I can’t function.

Treatment for this condition is a lumbar puncture and tap, to remove excess cerebral-spinal fluid. However, this procedure is expensive, and since my mother’s death last April, I have not been able to afford a tap, meaning my inter-cranial pressure is very high, and I am struggling to function.

With out treatment, I am experiencing radical and continual vision loss. I really need help.

I need this tap, and I need it as soon as possible, but without aid there is no way way for me to get it. Every little bit helps, you have no idea — if four thousand people can spare a single dollar to me, I’ll be in the clear for this procedure.