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[My main Tumblr can be found over at myasphyxiatedmind]

If you want your ask replied to privately, just put '****' before you start typing.

My name is: Michelle, but most people call me Dark online.

My gender-pronouns are: They/them/their.

I am: 26 years old, a feminist, liberal, an atheist, an omnivore, and an ISFJ.

The Feminist: Intersectional, body positive, pro-choice, and sex positive.

My privileged identities include: Female assigned at birth (trans* privilege), white, able-bodied, allistic (?), dyadic, monogamous.

My non-privileged/oppressed identities include: Gender-fluid, fat, gray-a, neuroatypical, and gay.

I have: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Major Depressive Disorder.

I like: Pets & animals, animal welfare, pet care & pet care education, ~*SCIENCE!*~, anatomy & physiology, roleplaying, anime/manga, computer & video games, rock & metal music.

Hello.

 

ssttephaniiee asked
yeah i did, because calling someone transphobic is seriously the dumbest thing EVER, just because they would not consider dating someone who is trans.

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Transphobic shitheads aren’t welcome here. Hit the unfollow button.

Like, all we’re asking is that people not exclude us from their dating pool by default with shit like, “I don’t date trans* people” or like, the second they find out that our genitalia isn’t what they expected, go “Whelp, that’s it, shit’s over, see ya.”

I don’t think that’s too much to ask.

Anonymous asked
I think criticising people for what they like sexually is more creepy and shitty actually. Im only attracted to men. If Im having sex with a man, I want penetration. With a penis. That's what turns me on, I don't understand why wanting that makes me a bad person.

Oh, idk, maybe because it’s transphobic? First of all, you’re assuming no trans men have a penis (hint: you’re wrong), second of all, just erasing trans* people from your dating pool and flat out saying “I don’t date trans* people” is transphobic as fuck.

If you’re only attracted to men, guess what? Trans men are men. So don’t fucking go, “I’m only attracted to men.”

Anonymous asked
Transphobia is very scary cause people seem to find it so easy to justify and it is so overlooked by everyone. It has always fascinated me that so called 'feminists' who were insisting that I was more than my body claim that to be a legitimate woman one must have a vagina. I mean either I'm not getting something or my vagina is more important than my spiritual identity.

To be a woman you need: to identify as a woman. That’s it. And anyone who says otherwise is transphobic trash. The idea that you need a vagina, a uterus, or ovaries is ludicrous because there are plenty of cis women who don’t have one or all of those things. What, are they not women either? Radscum logic at play again.

Anonymous asked
for someone who is constantly tells people to reread things, clearly you didn't actually read what i said, because i said i am pansexual AND i am okay with dating people regardless of genitalia, so clearly i don't think they are the same thing, but regardless i read all your posts and you were really heavily shaming people who weren't okay with having sex with people with penises unless they were sexually assaulted

Why… bother to tell me that you’re pansexual if you’re not connecting it with the ‘I’m okay with dating people regardless of genitalia’? How was it even relevant then?

I didn’t shame a single person who wasn’t okay with having sex with anyone else. I did, however, shame people who excluded trans women from their dating pool by default.

Boom and boom.

And with that, I’m done. Because I am not repeating what I’ve already repeated a thousand times.

[The jackasses' art is behind the link if you really want to see it]

genderbitch:

bro-venger:

wi—nk:

malenkydevil:

lady-brown:

missveryvery:

FYI, this person is a horrible fucking racist asshole that thinks gay people and transpeople are a genetic mistake and how she wishes she didn’t have to see homeless or differently abled people. SOOOO…

 ”Let me give you an example. Personally I prefer to stay clear of mentally handicapped people. Not those with “mild” handicaps  such as being bipolar, OCD or the like. I mean those who think and act like 5 years old children. I’m already not overly fond of children, so being around a grown up who acts like them is unnerving to me, and I quickly gets irritated with them.”

She just posts shit like this for attention and to Look Very Smart while at the same time using “science” to justify homophobia and transphobia. so maybe don’t kiss this person’s ass too much. She’s deleted ab unch of the journals where she says shit like this. She makes money selling her prints of these, don’t support a bigot by reblogging her shit.

She’s deleted the journals where she has reprehensible things because, surprise, being a huge bigot hurts your sales, especially when people would probably click these and think she’d be NOT homophobic, ableist, and fucking horrible. SHe’s deleted them but you can still find posts by people being appalled or being a shitty fuck apologist for her.

Oh an there’s a WHOLE TUMBLR dedicated to how much of a shit bag she is. Please stop reblogging her shit.

It’s always like a punch to the gut when people I look up to not only pull some bullshit like this, but fight tooth and nail when they get called out and try to delete the evidence because they just know they’re guilty.

I’m gonna bookmark that tumblr in case anyone on my dash posts any of her work.

Ah yes, humon. The one who perpetuates the notion that Black people are more homophobic than Whites while being a great white homophobe herself.

Leaving this here as a reminder that humon is a giant anti-Black racist, transphobic, ableist, homophobic piece of shit and no amount of art skill will change that.

(Source: humoncomics.com)

siddharthasmama:

anxiolyticsallday:

For the love of god why the fuck isn’t this reblogged 100000 times but a dog with a water bowl in its mouth is come the fuck on people.

okay but this poster is really cissexist though because let’s not ignore the fact some men can get pregnant just like some women can’t; i get the sentiment but let’s not be transphobic about it, okay?

siddharthasmama:

anxiolyticsallday:

For the love of god why the fuck isn’t this reblogged 100000 times but a dog with a water bowl in its mouth is come the fuck on people.

okay but this poster is really cissexist though because let’s not ignore the fact some men can get pregnant just like some women can’t; i get the sentiment but let’s not be transphobic about it, okay?

(Source: todefineistocupcake)

girlwiththelionstail asked
As a trans lady, I've always been uncomfortable with the rhetoric on all sides of the dating trans people 'debate.' People are allowed to have a preference but it's a bit asinine to declare that preference publicly by putting down the entire group you're not attracted to as if no one else should have that preference because it's 'icky'. The problem isn't "She's a pre-op transwomen and I'm not sexually compatible with penises, so we had to break it off when I found out". (1/2)

(2/2) The problem is “Transwomen? Guys, guys, that’s so gross.”Having preferences is fine. Acting like your preferences are the only preferences that matter and that it’s disgusting to have preferences that aren’t yours and that the people you’re not attracted to are /undeserving/ of having a relationship with other people is pretty fucked up.

Anonymous asked
'reducing' people to their junk isn't 'reducing' people to anything - it's the basis for sexual attraction for 90% of the planet. you can assume the junk will match the presentation 90% of the time. so it's a fair assumption. and 90% of the world will make it accurately. if you think that's gross, if you think it's some kind of engrained phobia, then whatever. if you don't need to worry about people's junk then good for you, have a cookie. you're a class citizen.

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Don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.

Anonymous asked
I have a hard time finding transgender people phisically atractive, sometimes associating them with being ugly. I feel very guilty about that and I was wondering if you'd know ways for me to reeducate myself on the subject.

Uh, you do realize that transgender people don’t all look alike, right? You’ve probably walked past hundreds of transgender people going about your daily life and didn’t even realize it.

Transgender people don’t ‘have a certain look’. So, yeah. Reeducate yourself on that.